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Trading to Win
The urge to learn is the urge to win, and this urge to compete to win belongs to everyone.
When you win, you satisfy your brain (dopamine, the chemical released in response to winning) and you feel good, having pleasurable emotions and conversations.
This drive to win is found in every cell of your being and underlies everything you do. It’s at the core of every business, every relationship, and every sporting game, including the game of day trading - and, you got it, the Day Traders Win game.
The drive to win is foremost the drive to survive (procreate and replicate – the continuation of the species). We do whatever we need to do to survive (win) - to stay alive long enough to pass on our genes, knowledge, and wealth - fighting, at times, to the death over mates, knowledge (insider information, technology), and money.
Should you buy into this philosophy, you can easily see that every aspect of living is about games. From the moment of life to the moment of death, all we experience is about games - rules (principles, values, and policies), winning or losing. Oh, and in the middle, when we take a break from the winning and losing experiences, we find a peaceful state (sleep, meditation, nature, art, fun, and so on). All three must be present - winning, losing, and rest - for success in any game.
The trading game is no different. So, what distinguishes what we do? We learn to lose with dignity and power. We learn to win with humility and power. And, we learn to take care of ourselves in between the two. Simple, yes?
The challenge of learning and serving, the big game, is what makes life worthwhile. That’s what our business is all about. That’s what your trading and your life can be all about. Yet we are never 100% satisfied. We always want more - to learn more, have more, and win more. Winning helps us come close to being fully satisfied. As winning is temporary, we always want more—in golf, in tennis, and while trading stocks Real satisfaction is the result of solving problems (learning), contributing with people (serving) = winning (whatever you choose to do in life). Winning, whatever your endeavor, keeps you feeling alive. _______________________________________________________________________
About Winning — Quotes:
“To gain by superiority in competition or contest; to obtain by victory over competitors or rivals”
“To come to by toil or effort; to reach; to overtake. To gain the victory; to be successful; to triumph; to prevail.”
“Most people have the will to win, few have the will to prepare to win.”
“If you don't practice you don't deserve to win.” “You never pull the trigger until you know you can win. “ “Winning is a habit. Unfortunately, so is losing. Winning isn't everything, but the will to win is everything.”
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Your nervous system releases another chemical (adrenaline) giving us a need to fight (trade recklessly) or to take flight (exit a winning trade before the real profits, or quit trading (by choice or by “blowing out” another account) altogether.
As we know, while trading, fear both prevents/delays an entry and you exit trades prematurely.
In addition, excess negative stress, like post traumatic stress syndrome (Vets returning from Iraq), the brain will just close down. We don't want to go there in this conversation.
Stress is as common as breathing. You want to rid yourself of stress, lop your head off.
Now managing stress is another matter. First, you want to distinguish between positive stress and negative stress. Then, you deal with any negative trading stress to be able to win.
Dealing with negative trading stress (losing) while enhancing positive trading stress (winning) is what we are here for - to quickly and powerfully help traders manage who they are while you are trading stocks. (By the way, you learn to do this well while trading, you will find yourself managing negative and positive stress in all other areas of your life.)
Day Trading - Losing
There is no other trading game I know of than the Day Traders Win game where winning and losing can be so rewarding. (not trading futures, not trading options, not swing trading, not investing, not commodities or any other trading venues –just day trading stocks). "What are you nuts, losing is rewarding?"
Our way of losing is so infrequent, so temporary, and we learn to make it so insignificant. You are now open for more opportunities to win.
Saying this another way. When we lose a trade in our game, it's small, fast, and fleeting - as we are now free emotionally and financially to move on to win again.
It would be like learning to drop volley in tennis or successfully exiting sand traps in golf - on your own. Not Possible. Not going to happen. All champions have an objective observer with proprietary game strategies, guidance, and support to get you to—and stay on top of - your game _______________________________________________________________________
About Losing — Quotes:
“Why are we so full of restraint? Why do we not give in all directions? Is it fear of losing ourselves? Until we do lose ourselves there is no hope of finding ourselves.” Henry Miller - writer of famous novels
Winning is not a sometime thing; it's an all time thing. You don't win once in a while, you don't do things right once in a while, you do them right all the time. Winning is habit. Unfortunately, so is losing.”
But sooner or later the man who wins, is the man who thinks he can. ... "The spirit, the will to win, and the will to excel, are the things that endure. ...
“Every time you win, it diminishes the fear a little bit. You never really cancel the fear of losing; you keep challenging it.” Arthur Ashe — famous Tennis Player
While you're saving your face, you're losing your ass. (Refusing to Exit as planned.) Lyndon Johnson — former President
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We learn to survive and strive; yet our brains are never totally satisfied no matter how much success - winning. We learn to be good at something to offer
It’s not even possible to be fully satisfied. So winning is about learning - so we can get what we want, then help others learn and win to get what they want.
Winning and losing is the ongoing, never-ending game of life that, when more become aware of life’s simplicity, this world can become a much better place for all to live in, win, and feel alive.
“Why?”
Trading is about living fully, in the moment, on the edge with risk, awake with emotions, fully engaged in the game to win, and while trading, to win - period. While trading, is not about the money, the accumulation of wealth, the philanthropy—it’s all about winning!
Learning to trade masterfully, your trading can become your source of financial power for all that matters in and for the rest of your life - your energy, health, dignity, relationships, serving others, and whatever you set out to accomplish and who you choose to serve.
Your quest for success, the need to be challenged - the urge to learn and win - and the urge to win while trading stocks - is all about being fully human—alive.
Done well, your life feels full and you come alive - winning.
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“How can I Make Money Trading stocks?”
Again, who are you?
· Are you a winner —hoping to be profitable?
· Are you breaking even—hoping to find a way to win?
· Or are you a loser, without much chance of ever winning?
Whatever your answer, given your knowledge and experience, you have, come to the perfect place to change all that - to be fully satisfied, better yet, delighted with your trading, with our help. We are here, our purpose for being in business, is to transform suffering losers to fully alive winners.
The train is about to leave the station. This may be your only opportunity to learn to consistently win while building the power and the wealth you have been dreaming about for your trading business — for what seems like forever.
No nonsense. No hype. No waiting for years.
“Works?” You bet.
To learn to trade at your very best, you need to trade with the best.
This is your real possibility to be very successful — day trading stocks.
Lean to Win with humility, learn to lose with dignity - feeling alive in the process of building wealth and power to serve others. Give us a call; we’d love to talk with you about your opportunity to become a consistently profitable winner.
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